Sleep Your Way to Your Dreams

Sleep Your Way to Your Dreams

Nope, I am not talking about your dreams when you’re sleeping.

I am talking about your day dreams.

The things you wish for when you are awake.

Are you wishing for a promotion, a house of your own, your own business, improving the sales of your present business?

You want to achieve not just for yourself but you want to give your kids a good life.

And you want to be the best wife or mom your kids could look up to.

Or maybe you’re single and you just want to be the best person you can possibly be.

You can have all that. You just have to know where to start.

What will you say if I tell you to start in your bedroom?

Yes. Start in your bedroom and get the right amount of good quality sleep.

What Sleep Can Do for You

In our fast-paced world, sleep often gets pushed to the bottom of our priority list. Whether it’s work deadlines, family obligations, or the irresistible temptation to binge-watch our favorite shows, we frequently sacrifice sleep, treating it as something expendable. We always say we’ll do better tomorrow but somehow it never happens because of all the new to-do’s we have added to our list.

And before we know it, we find ourselves in a never-ending cycle of poor sleep and broken promises of doing better next time.

But because we are stuck in this vicious cycle, we often find ourselves being irritable or drowsy all the time, having an unhealthy complexion, struggling to absorb information, having memory problems, having frequent colds and coughs, struggling to focus and concentrate on tasks, or worse, being anxious all the time. All these prevent us from doing and being our best at home and at work.

We feel guilty when we do not get enough sleep because we know sleep is important.

But how important is sleep really? Many of us are not aware of what sleep can do for us.

Our body is like a machine. It has to rest to be able to perform well. Sleep is more than just rest.

Sleep releases toxins that have accumulated throughout the day.

It reduces the level of the stress hormone, cortisol.

It allows the growth hormones to effectively rebuild injured tissues.

Sleep helps you think more clearly, focus better, and improves your reasoning and problem solving skills.

Sleep helps you learn better and helps you retain what you’ve learned. Without sleep, your ability to learn new things could decrease up to 40%.

Dr. Matthew Walker, a sleep scientist at the University of California, Berkeley, said that sleep before learning helps prepare your brain for initial formation of memories and that sleep after learning helps save and cement that information into the architecture of your brain. Lack of sleep negatively affects the hippocampus which is the part of the brain that is key to making new memories.

Because sleep does wonders for your immunity, illnesses are kept at bay.

Sleep gives you quicker reflexes.

Sleep affects every part of your body — your mood, appetite, breathing, blood pressure, complexion, cardiovascular health, to name a few.

With enough good quality sleep every day, you can experience less anxiety, be healthier, make better, wiser and timely decisions, recognize opportunities, have better relationships, finish tasks faster, and retain more information. Your inner health will make your complexion glow.

Imagine your confidence!

Imagine what you can do!

Imagine what you can be!

Along with keeping yourself hydrated and consuming nutrient-rich foods, getting enough sleep will do wonders for your health.

Before you know it, you are well on your way to living your dreams!

Start creating your dreams today with the help of free printables for your planner to keep you motivated..

The Power of Micro Self-Care

The Power of Micro Self-Care

I don’t know about you but it seems like people are talking about self-care all the time.

I know it’s one of my favorite topics when it comes to personal development because I know that my body is my most powerful ally to becoming the person I want to be for myself and for the people who are important to me.

And even though the topic of self-care is all over the internet, I know a lot of people who are still struggling to incorporate self-care into their daily schedule.

And yes, it has to be a daily thing.

You shouldn’t take care of yourself just once a week.

You’re a living, breathing being who needs care every day of the week.

Now, let’s imagine a world where self-care isn’t just a buzzword but a delightful collection of small, secret moments.

Intrigued?

You’re about to uncover the magic of micro self-care—an art that takes the ordinary and turns it into extraordinary.

Welcome to a journey where even the tiniest acts can create ripples of joy, relaxation, and lasting well-being.

The Micro Marvels You’ve Been Missing

We live in a world where time slips through our fingers like sand. Yet, there’s an oasis of self-care that’s often overlooked—the realm of micro self-care.

Take a minute to close your eyes and breathe deeply. Can you feel the calm washing over you? It’s like a mini-vacation for your mind! This is a small act of self-nurturing that open doors to a world where well-being is celebrated in bite-sized pieces.

Why Go Small?

You might be wondering why you have to go small when you can go big.

Let me tell you something that you may already know. Tiny steps can lead to massive transformations. Micro self-care isn’t just about fitting something else into your already busy schedule. It’s about transforming the moments you already have—like turning a cup of tea into a soothing ritual or a short stroll into a mindfulness adventure.

The Joy of Mini Victories

Sometimes we get frustrated because we think that we’re not accomplishing anything. The thing is we are so focused in looking for that big accomplishment that we fail to see that we actually have a lot of mini victories!

Let’s talk about micro wins. The satisfaction of checking off a to-do list isn’t limited to chores. Every tiny act of self-care counts as a victory. From taking a moment to feel the sun’s warmth on your skin to sending a thoughtful text to a friend, these are your self-care badges of honor. With each one, you’re nurturing not just yourself but a sense of empowerment that’s as mighty as it is magical.

The Magic of the Mindful Pause

Stopping to savor a single square of black chocolate mindfully can be an instant mood lift!

That burst of cocoa goodness isn’t just a treat for your taste buds—it’s a mindful moment that says, “Hey, I’m here, and I deserve this!”

Unveiling the Power of Ordinary Moments

In a world that craves the extraordinary, there’s immense power in celebrating the ordinary. Micro self-care isn’t about grand gestures; it’s about finding joy in the simplicity of life.

Whether it’s the comforting embrace of a cozy blanket or the soothing melody of your favorite song, these moments are the treasures that keep you balanced and grounded. And these ordinary moments will only have power when we are mindful enough to take notice.

That’s why it is important to practice that art of mindfully looking for joy everywhere and every time!

Here is a sample “micro-self care” activities you can incorporate into your daily activities.

In the morning when you wake up:

  1. Start your day with a few moments of gratitude.
    • Before you check your phone, open your window (go out to the balcony if you have one), take at least five deep breaths –counting 1, 2, 3, 4 as you breathe in, then hold 1, 2, 3, 4, then exhale, 1, 2, 3, 4. Repeat the cycle at least five times while you take in the early morning beauty. Whisper a short prayer and thank God for your life and for the beautiful day ahead.
  2. Listen to high energy songs on your way to work or while you’re doing your early morning chores.
    • This will keep your spirits up, keep you motivated and give you the positive energy you need. You can repeat this process throughout the day anytime you feel like you need it.
  3. Send a short message of love to someone you care about.
    • Doing so will keep you connected to the important people in your life, and give you that feeling of belonging and security that you are not alone.
  4. Visualize peace.
    • Close your eyes and imagine a beautiful quiet place. Immerse yourself in the tranquility of that oasis even just for a minute or two.

These are just samples of the simple things you can do and incorporate in your daily life, no matter how busy you are. Set a schedule in your planner so that you won’t miss doing them.

You can think of your own simple activities and schedule different activities on different days. These will put variety into your week and prevent you from becoming bored.

For more tips on self-care, here’s an interesting and eye-opening post about drinking water.

And if you want to track your self-care journey, that would be great! All you have to do is get a notebook with grid instead of lines and use that to track your daily progress.

Or you can buy a printable self-care tracker. There are hundreds and maybe even thousands of options you can choose from. Check out my self-care tracker here.

Learn to Take Better Care of Yourself

Learn to Take Better Care of Yourself

Hello, my dear!

As a mom and a former teacher, I understand and know from experience how easy it is to get caught up in the chaos of everyday life that we forget to take care of ourselves.

But I’m sure that though you often forget, you are well-aware of how important self-care is when it comes to achieving your goals and dreams, not to mention the fact that you need to be healthy and well so you can show up more meaningfully for the people you love and care for. 

Besides, you were given the gift of life and one way of honoring this gift and the Giver is by taking good care of yourself.

That’s why I’m here to remind you that self-care is something necessary and should be part of your day-to-day activities.

You need to remember that self-care is more than just bubble baths and face masks.  

It’s also about taking time to nourish your mind, body and spirit. It’s about setting boundaries and knowing when to say no and learning to say it.

Prioritizing your physical, spiritual and mental health is not selfish.  It will actually make you more patient, compassionate and loving.  It will give you the energy to take care of the people you love.

Your empowerment begins with your health and wellness.  When you are healthy and well, you will be able to concentrate on your goals without the distraction of trips to the doctors and health expenses.

So regardless of what roles you play in life, I am here to support you.  Women like us should stick together and help each other whenever we can.  

Over the coming weeks and months, we’ll explore different ways of practicing self-care.  From simple tips and tricks to in-depth strategies, we’ll get to learn how to truly take care of ourselves. 

Let’s take this health and wellness journey together and cultivate a life of joy, peace and fulfillment.